I recently started a new job, which is great  (and even though my boss goes out and drinks every night after work, he doesn’t do keg stands). But there is a girl that I work with who constantly has men come up to her and ask her where they know her from. She won’t say anything to them, but after a minute they’ll find her again and say that they’ve figured it out, they know her form the Men’s Club. Then she gets embarrassed and runs away. I’m sorry, but if you’re going to work at a men’s club, you’ve just got to get used to the recognition that comes along with it.

As soon as these strange, creepy old men recognize her as a girl from the men’s club, she always makes it clear that she wasn’t a dancer. Yeah, we can all tell you weren’t a dancer and would love it if you kept your clothes on now. Even if you just work at the door or bartend at a men’s club, people are still going to associate you with naked women, and if you can’t get over that, you don’t need to work there. If you think it’s “more respectable” to work at a strip club with your clothes on, you’re wrong.  A strip club is a strip club, sorry.  I get that some of these women are well educated and just need to do something to make ends meet, but you could do a million other things before you start taking yoru clothes off for strangers.  But you can’t get embarrassed or ashamed by being recognized from the club. You were the one that walked in and filled out the application, and I highly doubt anyone was dragging you in there kicking and screaming. If you thought when you filled out the application that no one would recognize you, boy were you wrong. Even if you keep your clothes on, people associate you with girls who take their clothes off, and it’s probably not a terrible assumption on their part because most of the girls do start taking their clothes off, but again, please keep yours on.   Bottom line, if you work at the strip club, don’t bitch about it. You were the one who worked there (and we ALL know about it) and you’ve told everyone a million times you weren’t a dancer … so, either quit wining about people recognizing you from being around naked girls, or put your big girl panties on and deal with it, now.